| BDSM is short for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. It may be either sadistic and savage or very erotic and sexually exciting. It has much in common with a love game in which one wants to be submissive and the other longs for dominating. The roles are not imposed upon partners and can be interchangeable.
Flogging is a method of BDSM that involves whipping or beating a sexual partner with whipping implements, such as whips, paddles, canes, floggers and so on. The flogger is a whip with thongs called "falls". Suede, leather, rubber, rope are the best materials to make falls of. The length, the number and composition of falls influence the sensation created by the flogger. Floggers are normally characterized by the sensation they cause. The sensation caused by floggers can also vary according to techniques applied by the dominant partner. Floggers are typically applied to body parts that are well-muscled or protected by body fat. A good flogger does not cause any damage. Yet, you should be vigilant. Do not hit the lower back to avert damaging kidneys. Butts, thighs and the upper back are regarded as the best areas to flog.
Erotic spanking is the act of spanking a partner for the sexual pleasure of either or both partners. Activities range from casual sexual role-play (for instance, age-play) to home discipline and may include either the use of a hand or the use of various spanking implements, such as a spanking paddle or cane. In many societies pain is regarded as an aphrodisiac. For example, the Kamasutra explains how to appropriately strike a partner during lovemaking. Erotic spankings are commonly coupled by other forms of sexual stimulation, such as oral sex, sexual role-playing and/or age-play. The comonnest method of erotic spanking is administered on naked buttocks but can also be coupled by bondage in order to up sexual drive and the feeling of helplessness.
A spanking outfit is another essential part of spanking. It is called a spanking skirt or a spank skirt. It has an extra opening designed to expose the butts. Though the name "spank skirt" denotes that the wearer could be spanked "bare bottom" without removing or taking off the skirt, this garment can be put on for purposes other than spanking (for instance, exposure). Spanking items are frequently tight and made of fetishistic materials, for instance, leather, PVC or latex. |
